OLUWASEYI IGE

On rape. A #Thread Rape has a number of things that falls into its definition. But simply put, it is any sexual carnal knowledge of a person without the person's consent. I believe in Christian values so I'll rely heavily on the Bible in my submissions. It's not a strange concept in our world. In fact, 2 examples jumped into my mind right now,from the Bible 😳🙆🏽‍ Don't forget Sodomites attempted to gang rape an angel 😇 But this one I want to show us.actually happened. It is in Gen 34, about Dinah, Schechem and the Israelites Ok. So this guy had a crush on Dinah and could not wait to marry her, he decided to have his way with her. Note that he actually lived her. in verse 3 of Gen 34 "His heart was drawn to Dinah daughter of Jacob; he loved the young woman and spoke tenderly to her." The problem is that he put the cart before the horse. In some rape cases, this is what happens. Going after the cochies (as @solaadio will...

One of the most important things young people consider before marriage is if the marriage will stand the test of time. Understanding the roles of each individual in a marital relationship is crucial. This is not being stereotypical but finding a formula that brings less conflict and adaptable compromises. This (copied) story below captures this succinctly: I once asked my friend, "What is the secret behind your happy married life?"  He replied, "You should share responsibilities with due love, and respect for each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems." I asked, "Can you explain?" He said, "In my house, I take decisions on bigger issues whereas my wife decides on smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions." Still not convinced, I asked him to give me some examples. He said, "Smaller issues like how many kids to have, the neighbourhood to live, which car we should buy, how much money to save, who, ...